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Still in Love With My Ex Girlfriend… What’s My First Move?

Love… it can really kick your ass. But at the same time, will you let it? If your girlfriend broke up with you and you still want her back, don’t you think there’s a way to get her? A specific set of moves and circumstances that will lead straight back into her heart?

I still love my ex girlfriend!

On the battlefield of dating, this is a common warcry. But what happens next? Do you sink to your knees and wring your hands at the sky, or do you fight to win back your relationship?

Look around. Couples get back together each and every day. There’s absolutely no reason you can’t be one of them. In every case, no matter what, there is always something you can do to win back your ex girlfriend. But whether or not you seek out and find the right path to get her back? That part is entirely up to you.

Whether you got dumped yesterday, last week, or even a year ago… you’re probably asking the same thing: “Okay I want my ex girlfriend back, what’s my first move?” Easy. The first thing you need to do is recognize that action doesn’t always equal results. In fact, when it comes to getting your girlfriend back? Sometimes inaction can go a lot further.

Let’s examine what happened when your ex broke up with you. Did you get upset? Beg her to reconsider? Maybe you held her hostage for a few hours while trying to get her to change her mind. Unfortunately for you, these were all bad moves. They turned your ex off immediately, because you became desperate and needy. Not only that, but the whole time you were trying to “talk” to her, you were only talking at her. You were only listening to your half of the conversation – only considering your own needs. Nevermind that your ex girlfriend carefully thought out her decision and was trying to present it to you in a calm, mature way… you threw all that over your shoulder in an effort to change her mind.

See where I’m going with this? You just got a small insight into what your girlfriend was thinking when she broke up with you.

So what happened next? Did you call your ex every day? Send her a billion text-messages? Did you drive to her house, or school or even worse, her job, just to “talk to her”? These things probably didn’t go too well. Your exgirlfriend most likely began avoiding you as much as possible, and not returning your calls. And as you felt her slipping away you probably tried to grab even tighter, making the whole situation even worse.

Then you figured “Hey… I still love my ex girlfriend… so I’ll write her a note!” Since she wouldn’t listen or talk to you, you thought a note was the next best thing. So you poured your heart out into a 20-page letter and tucked it beneath her wiperblade or left it on her doorstep, along with a dozen or so roses. And once again… no response. In fact, by now your ex girlfriend is starting to get a little bit afraid of you. Maybe she’s not telling you this, but it’s the truth.

Alright, enough of that for now. Hopefully you’ve gotten the picture. The real reason your exgirlfriend isn’t responding to you right now is because you overloaded her at a very critical time. This was a great opportunity for you to withdraw… disappear… and completely drop out of sight for a while, which would give your girlfriend the chance to really miss you. Instead, you went in the opposite direction – throwing yourself at her feet whenever you could. This was, and is, one of the reasons you haven’t been able to get your ex girlfriend back.

Now if you’re still in love with your ex girlfriend and you still want her back? The good news is there’s still hope. There are techniques that help will undo the damage you’ve done so far, as well as methods you can use to bring back your ex’s old feelings and emotions toward you. Remember when she loved you soo much? Those feelings are still there. Your ex girlfriend may have shelved them for now, in an effort to move on. That being said, there are ways of drawing out those feelings and recreating the beginning of your romance, when those initial sparks were overwhelming.

Winning back your ex girlfriend is a learnable skill. All it takes is patience, perseverance, and a step-by-step blueprint for success. There are simple ways to get your ex to call you, as well as other ways to help set up your first reunion date. All of these smaller steps help you know exactly what to do next and exactly when to do it – a much, much better way of winning her over than just trying things at random and hoping that they’ll work.

There are 8 Individual Steps necessary to Get Back Your Ex Girlfriend, so find out what they are! By learning to reactivate your ex’s emotional bonds to you, you can start right away on the path to Get Back Ex success!

Airone Croks Persue – London 1998
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I have been to London many times, but the first time I have wanted to paint there was in 1998. My contacts with the English scene were solely related to the fact I was exchanging magazines between Tribe Mag and Graphotism. So first thing, having no other hooks, I went to Graphotism’s headquarter to see if they could put me in touch with some trusted name.

I remember at that time Graphotism was located on the top floor of the old record store Mr. Bongo, in Soho. They advised me to go outside of a building that was hosting a streetwear trade fair where Prime (that if I’m not mistaken at that time collaboreted with Graphotism) should have been live painting. It was not hard to find him, accompanied by another writer, Pulse. Despite not knowing me, both were extremely cold towards me. Prime simply said that he had no time to help me. Pulse, while browsing Tribe’s pages (that I had brought in homage to introduce myself in some way), laughed and said that he never imagined that in Italy there were writers (it was 1998…) and that our pieces’ styles "looked really strange". My girlfriend, who accompanied me, immediatly dragged me away before the situation deterioreted. Even today, the episode is completely incomprehensible to me.

After a few days, I returned to the Graphotism’s office to bring the amount of Tribe Magz that we had agreed to exchange. I told that the meeting with Prime was disappointing and it was at this point that they made a call to a friend of them that maybe could have helped me. This guy said to be available and gave me a phone appointment for the next day: this was how I became friend with Croks. Croks proved to be the exact opposite of Prime and Pulse: so finally I painted in London! But most important I got a new friend and I was fortunate to meet one of the greatest stylers I’ve ever known… the photo speaks clearly: Croks’ piece is still actual today (2015). Over the years I got to meet and paint with Croks other times, in London and Milano, and thanks to him I met other cool writers from London with whom friendship continues to this day. Not all bad things comes to harm.

This photo is stolen from Skore, old Croks TRC partner (and great great writer!) on whose Flickr you’ll find all Croks pieces + other nice burners. Thanx mate!

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Signs You Need to Move on From Your Ex Girlfriend – 3 Indications That She Is Not The One

It can be hard to move on from a relationship even when it comes to an apparent end. You may feel like there is still something there and you may feel like you would be doing a disservice to yourself for not trying to see if you can work things out. While that may be true some of the time, there are also plenty of times when you really do need to just see the writing on the wall and move on from your ex girlfriend. It may not be what you want to happen, but it may be the best thing that you can do for yourself.

Here are 3 good signs that you just need to move on from your ex girlfriend:

1) Your ex girlfriend is already in a pretty committed relationship with someone else.

Finding out that your ex girlfriend is dating a new guy is not always a sign that she is not going to be an option in the future. Sometimes all you are dealing with is the usual rebound situation and if you don’t overreact and you wait it out, you may be able to win her back. However, if she is already committed to that new guy, then you may just have to admit that your luck has run out and it is time to move on and find the next girlfriend.

2) You find out that during your relationship, your ex girlfriend was unfaithful.

There are plenty of instances where a guy will find out after the break up that his ex girlfriend was actually running around on him behind his back and he will still feel like he wants to get back together. If you are in this kind of a situation, you may want to distance yourself from the idea of reconciling, because there is a good chance that she is just going to do it again if you do win her back.

3) You are starting to feel like you are more attracted to other women and not your ex girlfriend anymore.

Sometimes the idea of getting back together is really what you are in love with and even though you are finding that you are more attracted to women who are not your ex girlfriend, you still want to get her back just because the idea of it sounds good. Don’t do that because all that means is that you are going to end up getting disappointed if you do get her back and the feelings for her are not there anymore.

When a man loves a woman / Cuando un hombre ama a una mujer
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La Diada de Sant Jordi, also known as el dia de la rosa (The Day of the Rose) or el dia del llibre (The Day of the Book) is a Catalan holiday celebrated on April 23 similar to Valentine’s Day with some unique twists that show the ancient practice of this day. The main event is the exchange of gifts between sweethearts, loved ones and respected ones–historically, men gave their girlfriends and wives roses, and women gave their boyfriends and husbands a book to celebrate the occasion. In modern times, the mutual exchange of books is customary. Roses have been associated with this day since medieval times, but the giving of books is a more recent marketing ploy. In 1923, a smart bookseller started to promote the holiday as a way to honour the nearly simultaneous deaths of Miguel Cervantes and William Shakespeare on April 23, 1616. Barcelona is the publishing capital in both Catalan and Spanish and this heady one-two punch of love and literacy was quickly adopted.

On Barcelona’s principal street, La Rambla, and all over the city, hundreds of stands of roses and makeshift bookstalls are hastily set up for the occasion. By the end of the day, some four million roses and 400,000 books will have been purchased in the name of love. You will be hard-pressed to find a woman without a rose in hand, and half of the total yearly book sales in Catalonia take place on this occasion.

And while La Diada de Sant Jordi is not an "official" holiday, most romantics ditch the office to stroll the beautiful streets of Barcelona and to take in the sultry springtime weather. Love is definitely in the air, but even if you don’t have a novio to smooch on a park bench there are still plenty of things to see and do.

For example, the sardana, the national dance of Catalonia, will be performed throughout the day in the Plaça Sant Jaume. And many book stores and cafes host readings by noted authors (look out for 24-hour marathon readings of Cervantes’ "Don Quixote"). And there will be a variety of street performers and musicians on hand to add a romantic ambience to nearly every public square and plaza.

Additionally, April 23rd is the only day of the year when the Palau de la Generalitat, Barcelona’s principal government building, is open to the public. Inside this Gothic architectural masterpiece you’ll see huge displays of roses created to honour Saint George.

More info: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Diada_de_Sant_Jordi

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El Día de San Jorge conmemora la muerte de Jorge de Capadocia el 23 de abril del año 303. San Jorge es considerado patrón de diversas naciones y territorios, entre ellos Inglaterra, Georgia, Etiopía, Bulgaria y Portugal. En España es patrón de las regiones de Aragón, Castilla y León y Cataluña, y de las localidades de Cáceres y Alcoy, entre otras.

Además el 23 de abril fue declarado el Día Internacional del Libro por la UNESCO en 1996.

Tradicionalmente en Cataluña la Diada de Sant Jordi como es conocido este día allí, es el día de los enamorados, en el cual las personas intercambian y regalan rosas y libros a su pareja y personas queridas. Se cree que la tradición de regalar en esta fecha una rosa a la mujer amada se remonta probablemente hasta el siglo XV. Algunas versiones hacen coincidir esta práctica con la Feria de las rosas o de los enamorados que tenía lugar en Barcelona durante el verano. Es un hecho constrastado que en aquella época ya se repartían rosas a las mujeres que asistían a la misa oficiada en la capilla de San Jorge del Palacio de la Generalidad de Cataluña en esta fecha.

El Día de San Jorge tiene un aspecto reinvindicativo de la cultura catalana y muchos balcones lucen la bandera autónoma, la senyera. En toda Cataluña se venden cromos y llaveros llegando a su máxima expresión en las Ramblas, donde a los puestos habituales se añaden temporales. Es tradicional promover la venta de libros con firmas de los autores y un descuento al precio de venta. Normalmente también se realizan actividades en las bibliotecas y conciertos en las calles que se añaden a la agenda cultural de la ciudad condal.

Más info: es.wikipedia.org/wiki/D%c3%ada_de_San_Jorge

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