How to Make My Ex Girlfriend Want Me Back When She’s Found a New Guy
Your ex girlfriend is with another man and it looks like the writing’s on the wall. How can you get her back now? You can use Psychological Tricks and Expert Tips to get your ex-girlfriend back – links to a blog on what to do to get effective expert relationship strategies to reconcile with your ex is at the last paragraph of this article.
It’s actually quite common – for both men and women – to move straight on to someone else after a breakup. They’re called rebound relationships. And there’s a reason for that.
Men date new women to distract them from thinking about their ex and convince themselves (and their mates) that they are moving on.
Women date new men for emotional support at a very unhappy time in their lives.
Many women (and some men) only leave when they have their next love already lined up. And that is actually something in your favour.
If a woman walks out without having anyone to go to, it means she is super independent and confident. These women are much harder to catch, because they won’t settle for less than they want – and they are prepared to do without a love in their life if they can’t get it.
But if your girl has moved on to someone else, then she probably isn’t the type to stand alone for long. And so you have the advantage here.
How to play your cards
You are also at a disadvantage, because in some ways you weren’t meeting her needs. You need to turn this disadvantage back into something positive again.
The fact is that this new guy offered her attention and approval just when she needed it. He is there for her when you are not. But that doesn’t mean her feelings for him will last. In fact, the chances are very much AGAINST them lasting. He is there to cushion the transition for her from being with you to being single. When she is ready, she will move on to someone else.
So how can you make sure that guy is you?
Well, she loved you once, didn’t she? And whatever has gone wrong between you, she still has those feelings inside.
Women live through their emotions in a way that men often find difficult to understand. Think of those romantic novels and films she loves so much. She enjoys them because she sees herself in them; because in her imagination she is living through the characters she is watching or reading about.
So you don’t need to recreate her love from scratch. You just need to revive and restore it in her memory.
But you won’t do that by begging and pleading with her to come back, or by trying to muscle in on the supportive role that this new guy is playing.
Instead you have to write a new story for her – and be the lead character in it – her hero.
In other words, you need to stop playing the supporting role. You need to be in charge; of your own life and eventually of hers too.
What women want
Women want men who can lead, who have ambitions and goals for the future.
Instead of agonising over her, you need to get out there and show her what you are made of. Think of the impossibly debonair James Bond. You don’t have to aspire to be as smooth as he is; the important about him is that he’s a leader, not a follower.
So that’s what you’re aiming for.
Be cool and confident, especially around her
Be unfazed about her seeing someone else
Talk about your plans for the future, but don’t be specific – keep it vague. You are aiming to intrigue her, to make her want to know more
Expect her to follow you
If you don’t feel that you can carry this off yet, then stay away from her until you are in control. Do whatever it takes to make you believe in yourself. Get a new job, work out, give yourself a makeover, have fun, date other women – just keep going until you stop seeing yourself as a failure.
You’re the guy who can make her laugh and who is fun to be with. You are excited about the future and passionate about the things you enjoy. You’re a success.
You are not her new support system – that the other guy’s lot. You’re going to offer her a new, fun, exciting and sexy future, and she’s going to choose to spend it with you.
Are you sometimes baffled about what women really want?
Women’s needs and priorities are not the same as men’s. Find out more about what women want, so that you can plan a better relationship for when you get back together.
It can actually be a good idea to to have some time apart from her for a while. This will give her a chance to miss you, and find out whether she really wants you after all.
If you still love your ex, don’t give up. Visit this link to download a free PDF eBook that will give you Expert Professional strategies on how to get your ex back in love with you. There’s Romantic Hint to get back your ex and to make them love you like never before. You can visit my blogs for more effective expert relationship strategies to reconcile with your ex-girlfriend when you visit these links below at the Authors Bio section.
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In Morocco, it’s very hard for young couples to find places where they can spend time together. In most of the traditional houses, there are no bedrooms and the whole family stays together in one big living room : forget about your house, and going to your girlfriend’s house is not even an option. In cafés ? Most of them are only frequented by men. In the street ? You’ll have to cope with the burdening look of family/neighbours/peers/society on unmarried couples. In your car ? When you’re a man, being in a car with an unmarried Moroccan woman is strictly forbidden by the law, unless you can justify family or professional links. Of course, you can still treat the cop harrassing you with a small bakchich. In hotels ? Forbidden by the law too…
So there are a few strategic places left, where all the young people meet and the unmarried couples can be together in public without any constraint, spend entire afternoons far from the eyes of the neighbours or the family : In Rabat, these are the beach, the kasbah gardens, the kasbah platform, the mausoleum gardens…
It’s funny to see that many single men go to these places too, even though the probability of meeting other single women there is almost null. Maybe because in those places they can allow themselves to feel blue and romantic, far from the ambient obnoxious misogyny of most of the crowded streets.
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