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Seeing or Meeting an Ex Girlfriend After the Breakup

When you finally see or run into your ex girlfriend, will you know what to do? Find out what you can do and say that will make this moment go as smoothly as possible, plus some tips on what you should do if you still want her back.

Nothing strikes harder to the very pit of your stomach than having to see an ex girlfriend when you’re still in love with her. The combination of watching her new life go on without you coupled with the bittersweet memories of your past relationship can make it extremely awkward just to be around her.

If this is where you’re at, that’s okay. We all go through stuff like this, and there are ways of keeping a level head and good composure whenever you’re around your ex.

And if you’re trying to win back your girlfriend’s heart? The way you look and act around her becomes even more important. Below are some very solid tips on how you can best impress your ex girlfriend when seeing her for the first time since the breakup:

Staying Calm, Cool, and Collected

The first thing your ex girlfriend will notice about you (beyond your appearance) is how you compose yourself. Your words and actions are important, but even more so are your general mannerisms.

Act nervous or squirrelly around your ex girlfriend, and you’re immediately putting yourself in a very weak position. She’ll smell your desperation and she’ll know that your only real motives are to win her back. This is a very bad first impression, and it’s not the approach you want to take. Therefore, you need to be extremely chill, controlled, and even confident the first time you’re speaking to or seeing your ex.

If it helps, remember that your ex is nervous too. Don’t focus on the impact of this one meeting, and try to downplay the importance in your mind. Be casual, and pretend as if you’re still dating her. Without getting romantic, address your ex girlfriend the same way you did while you were a couple. Treat is as a during a normal, everday conversation.

Putting Forth Vibes of Success and Excitement

Once you’ve settled into talking to your ex, it’s time to impress her. You don’t want to make it overly obvious, but you do want your exgirlfriend to see you as both successful and even totally thriving since the breakup.

How are things going? Things are great. In fact, they’re better than great – they’re just short of winning the lottery. Act as if getting dumped has had NO affect on you at all; your life is awesome, everything’s been great, and you’ve been having a totally fun time with friends and family. You want your ex to think you haven’t missed her one bit, your life hasn’t skipped a single beat, and that you can obviously be happy without her.

This is the opposite of what she wants and expects, and this will have a direct impact on how your ex girlfriend sees you, as well as the amount of respect she has for you. Do it correctly, and your ex will even be jealous of all the fun you’ve been having, especially since the last few weeks or months of your relationship was probably lacking that fun.

Making Her Want You Back – Being The Person She Once Loved

Try to think back to when you first asked your girlfriend out. Replay those first few dates in your mind… remember where you went, what you did, and most of all, how you acted around her.

Were you sad and depressed like you are now, or were you cool and confident? Were you alone and lonely, or did you surround yourself with friends? The point here, is that your girlfriend was attracted to you because you were new and exciting. You were fun, you were funny, and you were someone she looked up to. Why? Because you were much different back then. In those days you weren’t depressed because of a breakup; you were outgoing, energetic, and full of life.

By making these same traits a part of your daily life TODAY, you can easily reattract your ex girlfriend. Those residual feelings and emotional bonds she’s trying to bury for you can be brought right back to the surface. This type of thing renews the spark that ignited your original relationship, bringing your ex back to a time when she couldn’t stand to be without you. Your attitude is a huge part of whether or not you can win your girlfriend back, so make sure you give her nothing but positivity and charisma.

Seeing Your Ex – What To Say and Not Say To Her

In the case where you’re face to face with your ex girlfriend for the first time since breaking up, you’ll need to be careful with your words. You don’t want to seem overly anxious to see or hear from her, so you can’t use phrases like “I’ve missed you” or “I think about you a lot”.

Those types of phrases work in the movies. But in real life? You’re going to scare her off. Your ex is immediately going to put her guard up, because she now knows your motives. She now knows you’re still holding the torch for her, and will probably still try to get her back.

Instead, it’s always good to let your ex do most of the talking. Be vague and even a little bit evasive about yourself, and keep turning the conversation back to her. This will create mystery – another important part of making your ex want you again. It also gives her the chance to keep talking about herself, which will allow her to open up.

Never, ever, EVER mention your past relationship… especially if your breakup went badly. The subject of you and her as a couple should never come up. Any mention of the breakup will instantly raise alarms in your ex girlfriend’s mind, and if you don’t want her putting up her entire line of defenses you should steer clear of mentioning this at all costs.

Step by Step Methods That Will Help Get Her Back

Seeing your ex girlfriend after the breakup is only one of the many steps in the reconciliation process. If you’re having trouble getting to this point, you’ll need to learn what to do beforehand. Laying out a roadmap for success is always better than just trying to wing it, and will always give you the best the chances of reversing your breakup.

There are 6 Individual Steps necessary to Get Your Girlfriend Back, so learn exactly what to do! The faster you get proactive about winning her back, the sooner you can make your ex want you again.

Mark Sandman – Morphine
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Such a great great show. I never had a chance to see them after this show and about a year or two later Mark died. This was taken at the old Black Cat right before there last album came out. They played a song called "Women Are Dogs Too" that I haven’t been able to find, or they changed the title of it and it’s on that best of album I haven’t heard yet. Or it’s on there last album that I bought years ago that was swiftly stolen by an ex-girlfriend. I never bothered to buy it again. It makes me sad just thinking about it. Morphine, they rule harder then just about any band you listen to. Rest in Peace Mr. Sandman.

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How To Get My Ex Girlfriend Back After Telling Me She Needs Some Space

How can I get my ex girlfriend back when she needs space? Probably the biggest question guys ask themselves, especially with women-led breakups, because most involve something to do with needing more space. If she is telling you she needs more space in the relationship, she is indirectly telling you she is unhappy with the relationship. This is a common answer given during a breakup, and is usually used to avoid speaking about what is really going on. You can use psychosomatic and expert Tips to get your ex boyfriend or girlfriend back in your life; more effectual information ways at the end of this article.

When a girl, unfortunately, says she wants space and decides to end the relationship, she is often saying she does not want to be with you, and really does not want to expend the effort to help you understand what’s going on in her mind.

Something is usually wrong in the relationship when a woman asks for space. Rather than help you figure out the issues and get the relationship back on track, they would rather walk. If you ever find yourself asking “how can I get my ex girlfriend back when she needs space?” this is a positive indication that you want to make things better in the relationship and that you still have hope.

It is a pretty clear cut indication that the communication between you has broken down if she needs space. You need to get into her mind and find out what is really bothering her, if you sincerely want to get the relationship working again. Often, this becomes difficult because for whatever reason, she has shut you out, but if you persist you will figure it out. With so many guys asking “how can I get my ex girlfriend back when she needs space?”, it appears to be a common phenomenon and it does have a solution.

If you are trying to rekindle your relationship with your ex girlfriend who is telling you she needs space, just find a way to communicate with her. She will often just be using the needing space story to let you know something is wrong with your relationship with her, and if she will not talk about it, it has to be addressed eventually. Just give her gentle hints you want to still be with her.

Just simply offer to remain a friend and offer companionship, and see how she responds to that. Do not force yourself on her. When she gets comfortable with this friendship, just start slightly inquiring about what went wrong in the relationship; subtle hints are all you need in your conversation with her to find out.

She will open up on her own time, when she is good and ready. Never rush or force things, just use a slow and easy approach and let her find the best way to say what happened. Once the issues are exposed, this gives you the opportunity to resolve them and you get your ex girlfriend back.
Once you feel loved again, you will be glad you made the effort. Even more effective tips when you Visit these links (Authors Bio section) underneath.

Did you hear what I said? I *hate* purple! I’ll bet you gave this iPhone to your last girlfriend…
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(more details later, as time permits)

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About a year ago, I created Flickr album for photos that I had started taking with my iPhone5s; and now I’m creating a new Flickr album for photos that I’ve begun taking with myiPhone6, which just arrived from T-Mobile this morning.

In last year’s album, I wrote, "Whether you’re an amateur or professional photographer, it’s hard to walk around with a modern smartphone in your pocket, and not be tempted to use the built-in camera from time-to-time. Veteran photographers typically sneer at such behavior, and most will tell you that they can instantly recognize an iPhone photo, which they mentally reject as being unworthy of any serious attention.

"After using many earlier models of smartphones over the past several years, I was inclined to agree; after all, I always (well, almost always) had a “real” camera in my pocket (or backpack or camera-bag), and it was always capable of taking a much better photographic image than the mediocre, grainy images shot with a camera-phone.

"But still … there were a few occasions when I desperately wanted to capture some photo-worthy event taking place right in front of me, and inevitably it turned out to be the times when I did not have the “real” camera with me. Or I did have it, but it was buried somewhere in a bag, and I knew that the “event” would have disappeared by the time I found the “real" camera and turned it on. By contrast, the smart-phone was always in my pocket (along with my keys and my wallet, it’s one of the three things I consciously grab every time I walk out the door). And I often found that I could turn it on, point it at the photographic scene, and take the picture much faster than I could do the same thing with a “traditional” camera.

"Meanwhile, smartphone cameras have gotten substantially better in the past few years, from a mechanical/hardware perspective; and the software “intelligence” controlling the camera has become amazingly sophisticated. It’s still not on the same level as a “professional” DSLR camera, but for a large majority of the “average” photographic situations we’re likely to encounter in the unplanned moments of our lives, it’s more and more likely to be “good enough.” The old adage of “the best camera is the one you have with you” is more and more relevant these days. For me, 90% of the success in taking a good photo is simply being in the right place at the right time, being aware that the “photo opportunity” is there, and having a camera — any camera — to take advantage of that opportunity. Only 10% of the time does it matter which camera I’m using, or what technical features I’ve managed to use.

"And now, with the recent advent of the iPhone5s, there is one more improvement — which, as far as I can tell, simply does not exist in any of the “professional” cameras. You can take an unlimited number of “burst-mode” shots with the new iPhone, simply by keeping your finger on the shutter button; instead of being limited to just six (as a few of the DSLR cameras currently offer), you can take 10, 20, or even a hundred shots. And then — almost magically — the iPhone will show you which one or two of the large burst of photos was optimally sharp and clear. With a couple of clicks, you can then delete everything else, and retain only the very best one or two from the entire burst.

"With that in mind, I’ve begun using my iPhone5s for more and more “everyday” photo situations out on the street. Since I’m typically photographing ordinary, mundane events, even the one or two “optimal” shots that the camera-phone retains might not be worth showing anyone else … so there is still a lot of pruning and editing to be done, and I’m lucky if 10% of those “optimal” shots are good enough to justify uploading to Flickr and sharing with the rest of the world. Still, it’s an enormous benefit to know that my editing work can begin with photos that are more-or-less “technically” adequate, and that I don’t have to waste even a second reviewing dozens of technically-mediocre shots that are fuzzy, or blurred.

"Oh, yeah, one other minor benefit of the iPhone5s (and presumably most other current brands of smartphone): it automatically geotags every photo and video, without any special effort on the photographer’s part. Only one of my other big, fat cameras (the Sony Alpha SLT A65) has that feature, and I’ve noticed that almost none of the “new” mirrorless cameras have got a built-in GPS thingy that will perform the geotagging…

"I’ve had my iPhone5s for a couple of months now, but I’ve only been using the “burst-mode” photography feature aggressively for the past couple of weeks. As a result, the initial batch of photos that I’m uploading are all taken in the greater-NYC area. But as time goes on, and as my normal travel routine takes me to other parts of the world, I hope to add more and more “everyday” scenes in cities that I might not have the opportunity to photograph in a “serious” way.

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Okay, so now it’s September of 2014, and I’ve got the iPhone 6. They say that the camera is better, and that the internal camera-related hardware/firmware/software is better, too. Obviously, I’ve got the newer iOS, too, and even on the “old” phones, it now supports time-lapse videos along with everything else.

I’ve still got my pocket camera (an amazing little Sony ERX-100 Mark III), and two larger cameras (Sony RX-10, and Sony A7), but I have a feeling that I won’t even be taking them out of the camera bag when I’m out on the street for ordinary day-to-day walking around.

That will depend, obviously, on what kind of photos and videos the iPhone6 is actually capable of taking … so I’m going to try to use it every day, and see what the results look like …

Like I said last year, “stay tuned…"

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How Can I Get My Ex Girlfriend Back After Telling Me She Needs Some Space

How can I get my ex girlfriend back when she needs space? Probably the biggest question guys ask themselves, especially with women-led breakups, because most involve something to do with needing more space. If she is telling you she needs more space in the relationship, she is indirectly telling you she is unhappy with the relationship. This is a common answer given during a breakup, and is usually used to avoid speaking about what is really going on.

When a girl, unfortunately, says she wants space and decides to end the relationship, she is often saying she does not want to be with you, and really does not want to expend the effort to help you understand what’s going on in her mind.

Something is usually wrong in the relationship when a woman asks for space. Rather than help you figure out the issues and get the relationship back on track, they would rather walk. If you ever find yourself asking “how can I get my ex girlfriend back when she needs space?” this is a positive indication that you want to make things better in the relationship and that you still have hope.

It is a pretty clear cut indication that the communication between you has broken down if she needs space. You need to get into her mind and find out what is really bothering her, if you sincerely want to get the relationship working again. Often, this becomes difficult because for whatever reason, she has shut you out, but if you persist you will figure it out. With so many guys asking “how can I get my ex girlfriend back when she needs space?”, it appears to be a common phenomenon and it does have a solution.

If you are trying to rekindle your relationship with your ex girlfriend who is telling you she needs space, just find a way to communicate with her. She will often just be using the needing space story to let you know something is wrong with your relationship with her, and if she will not talk about it, it has to be addressed eventually. Just give her gentle hints you want to still be with her.

Just simply offer to remain a friend and offer companionship, and see how she responds to that. Do not force yourself on her. When she gets comfortable with this friendship, just start slightly inquiring about what went wrong in the relationship; subtle hints are all you need in your conversation with her to find out.

She will open up on her own time, when she is good and ready. Never rush or force things, just use a slow and easy approach and let her find the best way to say what happened. Once the issues are exposed, this gives you the opportunity to resolve them and you get your ex girlfriend back.
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ok so im doing something a little different tonight. my girlfriend write this little tid bit about music which ive recently been trying to learn more about. i thought i would post it for the rest of you to read and enjoy =).

I can’t play the piano, or create music on it or for it. So instead I’m creating my music here. This blank page is my piano and my words are my music. The intensity I want you to feel when you read certain parts of my song comes from how fast I type these words just like how fast or slow the piano plays. You wont know it though, you wont know when I was typing fast or slow, but you will feel the intensity I felt when you read it, if I’m conveying my thoughts the right way. Whatever I hear, I’m creating something right on this page, only in words. Writing is like a song, there’s a lead up a climax and an ending. Writing to music makes whatever your writing like the mood of the song your listening to. At slow parts you slow down you think, the intensity builds back up in the song and your brain has had its time to think and rest and all of the sudden your thoughts are front and center again. It’s the same as when your listening to music you move to the song and at the slow part you take time to take it in. When the intensity rises again you start to move, since you have already collected your thoughts about what that song has been meaning to you. It’s the same with writing as it is the same with life. There are moments when everything is on such high gear, everything is intense your moving and moving emotionally, physically, mentally. The mood is on edge there’s no time to even think about what your doing. Then comes the slow down, that time where it’s as if your car is running at 60 mph and hit’s a big puddle. Suddenly all that intensity in your life has come to a halt, now is the time to take in all you have learned, now is the time to make sense of all your life has become and is becoming. At this point your not really moving, mentally, physically, or emotionally. Your floating, taking it all in, at this point there’s not much you feel like you can do or ever will be able to do. But just like a great song, that slow down once again has that build up. All that time you had to reflect on who you are, who you were and what you are becoming is going to come in handy, because once again your going to move, that slow part comes in good use because now at this point in the song you know what’s going to happen you know in a great song the greatest part is towards the end so that you’ll remember it. That’s what you want for you life, after that slow down you want to have the intensity of the last stretch so good so that at the end you’ll want to remember it, and other people will remember it all. Not all people appreciate a great song, some like ones that are carbon copied and made in a day for the money. In a song like that you can’t truly connect to the build up, the slow down, the peak and the break down. A song like that is made for you to hear, but not to listen, and not to feel, what it’s really made for is money. which increases power. Again this is how people live their lives, carbon copied. The substance isn’t there, all these people care about is what is in front of them, they don’t take the time to let their lives build up and they sure don’t take the time to slow down. And when they don’t slow down they cant really reflect on who they are in they’re soul. In return their lives become about the next check, and any way to become more powerful over the rest. In a life like this as in a song like this, what is there to remember in the last stretch, will it be remembered in the end at all. Life should be lived like a great song is written, and preformed. Maybe that’s why great music comes from people who have great minds, because they know how to live their life. Since the dawn of any structured form of civilization man has been creating music. It lives in us, and people who know how to truly live know how to create music in it’s purest form, because it lives in us. If you know how to live purely then so when you make music it reflects that. It almost feels as if music is a living creature itself, we live through it and it lives through us. If you can harness your own life, you can harness the music. The truth comes from august rush, when he said “ the music is all around us, all you have to do is listen.” The reason that’s true is because we take music from our own lives. I think music is something that is so diversified and so easily relatable and something that you can so greatly feel with every fiber you have, because that’s what it is and that’s where it comes from. People say music is their life, well because it is. It’s something that comes from somewhere inside of someone out of nowhere. It can be related to all art forms and most importantly the journey of life itself. Every art form and self expression is equally important to each other because they all connect together, they all live inside of each person and personify life and the soul, the shitty ones most of the time coming from lost people. The great ones coming from lost people who are trying to find their way. Because were all lost in a way and always will be. The journey is never ending and self expression in any form is there to light the path even, if it’s a little bit dim. Everyone’s life is song good, or bad. They just have to learn how to play it.