How to Get a Girlfriend- 4 Keys to Female Attraction

Well, you want to know how to get a girlfriend and my assumption is that you don’t want to have to approach dozens of women with the hopes that one of them will decide to say yes and go out on a date with you. Most guys have a hard time attracting a girlfriend and when they DO find one, they usually end up getting a little too attached to her and then they wonder why things are not flowing smoothly.

If you want to know how to get a girlfriend, then you cannot look for some theories on what attracts women. Rather, you have to take a look at things that have been proven to attract women and will continue to do so. Otherwise, you will end up running into dead end after dead end trying to figure out how to get a girlfriend.

Here are 4 keys to female attraction that should help you discover how to get a girlfriend:

1. You must be able to really figure out what kind of woman is right for you. Truth is, you could end up attracting a woman that is totally wrong for you and what would be the point in that? After all, I would think that your reasons for wanting to get a girlfriend have more to do with attracting a female that suits you, rather than just having any woman act as your girlfriend.

2. If you want to get a girlfriend, you have to look in new places. Having trouble meeting new women? Well, the quickest remedy for this is to get out and start looking at new places where you can meet new women. Don’t let yourself become a creature of comfort where you are unable to get out of a rut and start finding new women. You don’t have to just look in the usual places to attract a girlfriend.

3. Flirt with women wherever you go. You want to become comfortable and skilled when it comes to flirting with women and the more experience that you can muster up, the better off you will end up being. To get a girlfriend, you need to be the kind of guy that can flirt with just about any woman and at any time. This is not something to be taken lightly, as it can really broaden your horizons when it comes to attracting a girlfriend.

4. Make yourself get out and approach women, no matter what. This could be seen as a little bit of a pep talk, but you need to push yourself when it comes to approaching women. Face it, the way that the world works, the man is the one that needs to be able to make the approach.

These 4 tips can really help you out with getting a girlfriend, but the key is that you need to get off of your rear and do something, anything to attract a girlfriend. Sitting around and waiting for things to be different is not going to make it happen.

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musicians who died young. So young, in fact, that many of the performers on the following list did not reach their 40th birthday.

John Henry Bonham (31 May 1948 – 25 September 1980) was an English musician and songwriter, best known as the drummer of Led Zeppelin. Bonham was esteemed for his speed, power, fast right foot, distinctive sound, and "feel" for the groove. He is widely considered to be one of the greatest drummers in the history of rock music. Rolling Stone readers named him the "best drummer of all time" in 2011.



On 24 September 1980, Bonham was picked up by Led Zeppelin assistant Rex King to attend rehearsals at Bray Studios for an upcoming tour of the United States—the band’s first since 1977. During the journey, Bonham asked to stop for breakfast, where he drank four quadruple vodkas (sixteen shots, between 400–560 ml). He then continued to drink heavily after arriving at the rehearsals.

They stopped rehearsing late in the evening and the band retired to Page’s house, the Old Mill House in Clewer, Windsor. After midnight on 25 September, Bonham fell asleep; someone took him to bed and placed him on his side. Benji LeFevre (who had replaced Richard Cole as Led Zeppelin’s tour manager) and John Paul Jones found him dead the next afternoon. Bonham was 32 years old.

At the coroner’s inquest it emerged that in the 24 hours before he died, Bonham consumed approximately forty shots (1-1.4 liters) of 40% ABV vodka, after which he vomited and aspirated the vomitus, causing asphyxiation. A verdict of accidental death was returned at the inquest, held on 27 October 1980. An autopsy found no other drugs in Bonham’s body.

Colin Flooks (29 December 1947 – 5 April 1998), better known as Cozy Powell, was an English rock drummer, who made his name with many major rock bands like The Jeff Beck Group, Rainbow, Whitesnake and Black Sabbath.



THE SEVENTIES’ rocker Cozy Powell, who once said that he drove cars like he drummed – madly – was on the phone to his girlfriend as he hurtled down a motorway at 104mph without wearing his seatbelt, an inquest heard.

Powell died on 5 April 1998 following a car accident while driving his Saab 9000 at 104 mph (167 km/h) in bad weather on the M4 motorway near Bristol.

Powell was dating a married woman who was having troubles with her husband. Upset, she phoned him on 5 April 1998 and asked him to come quickly to her house which was approximately 35 miles away. As he was driving to her house she phoned him again and asked "Where are you?" He informed her he was on his way and then she heard him say "Oh shit!" followed by a loud bang.

Powell was ejected through the windscreen and died at the scene. According to the BBC report, at the time of the crash Powell’s blood-alcohol reading was over the legal limit, and he was not wearing a seat belt, in addition to talking with his girlfriend on his mobile phone. The official investigation also found evidence of a slow puncture in a rear tyre that, it was suggested, could well have caused a sudden collapse of the tyre with a consequent loss of control of the car.

In a statement, Ms Reeve said that Powell had just told her he was having problems finding fifth gear, and hoped the engine would not seize up as he was going so fast.

Then she heard him say: "Oh shit", and the line went silent.

She kept trying to ring him back until she realised something was wrong and contacted the police. Powell, 50, was found to be slightly over the drink-drive limit after the car spun, hit the central kerb, and came to rest on its roof.

Paul Forrest, the Bristol coroner, recorded a verdict of accidental death.

It would appear that Cozy was alone in his Saab 9000 when he lost control on the M4 motorway, and crashed between junctions 18 and 19 near Bristol. He died of his injuries in the hospital.

Mr Powell, who was over the drink-drive limit and not wearing a seat belt, had complained that he was having trouble finding fifth gear and said he hoped the engine would not seize up because he was driving so fast.

The Saab suffered a rear tyre puncture shortly afterwards that sent it spinning out of control. It hit the central reservation and rolled several times before coming to rest on a grass verge.

Pc Ian Cater, who was off-duty and travelling in the opposite direction at the time of the accident, said he saw Mr Powell’s car come "cartwheeling" past him before it landed on its roof.

Cozy’s funeral took place on Saturday 18 April at a crematorium in Wiltshire, which is about 90 miles west of London. It was a simple service, with hymns and prayers, as well as a reading by a friend of Cozy’s, keyboard player Jim Johnson, and an emotional tribute by one of Cozy’s closest friends, Frank Aiello, who was the singer with Bedlam and Hammer. The service ended with ‘Let It Be’ by the Beatles.

There were dozens of floral arrangements and wreaths, with messages of sympathy from Tony Iommi, Geoff Nicholls, Tony Martin, David Coverdale and many others. Those attending in person included Brian May, Jeff Beck, Peter Green, Don Airey, Glen Tipton (Judas Priest), Denny Ball (Bedlam), Spike Edney and Jamie Moses (Brian May Band) along with family members and other close friends. There are no definite plans for a memorial/tribute event, but I’m sure that something will be organised after people have had time to get over the initial shock of Cozy’s death.

He was living at Lambourn in Berkshire at the time and had returned to the studio shortly before his death to record with Fleetwood Mac co-founder Peter Green. At the time of death Cozy had recently had to pull out of tour rehearsals with Yngwie Malmsteen, having suffered an injury in a motorcycle accident. One of his last phone calls, to his fanclub editor, was to express distress about this, but also enthusiasm of the then forthcoming Brian May tour. By that time, he had been the drummer on at least 66 albums with minor contributions on many other recordings. Many rock drummers have cited him as a major influence.

Stuart Fergusson Victor Sutcliffe (23 June 1940 – 10 April 1962) was a Scottish-born artist and musician best known as the original bassist for the Beatles. Sutcliffe left the band to pursue his career as an artist, having previously attended the Liverpool College of Art. Sutcliffe and John Lennon are credited with inventing the name, "Beetles", as they both liked Buddy Holly’s band, the Crickets. The band used this name for a while until Lennon decided to change the name to "the Beatles", from the word Beat. As a member of the group when it was a five-piece band, Sutcliffe is one of several people sometimes referred to as the "Fifth Beatle".

When the Beatles played in Hamburg, he met photographer Astrid Kirchherr, to whom he was later engaged. After leaving the Beatles, he enrolled in the Hamburg College of Art, studying under future pop artist, Eduardo Paolozzi, who later wrote a report stating that Sutcliffe was one of his best students. Sutcliffe earned other praise for his paintings, which mostly explored a style related to abstract expressionism.



While studying in Germany, Sutcliffe began experiencing severe headaches and acute sensitivity to light. In the first days of April 1962, he collapsed in the middle of an art class after complaining of head pains. German doctors performed various checks, but were unable to determine the exact cause of his headaches. On 10 April 1962, he was taken to hospital, but died in the ambulance on the way. The cause of death was later revealed to have been an aneurysm in his brain’s right hemisphere.

Otis Ray Redding, Jr. (September 9, 1941 – December 10, 1967) was an American singer-songwriter, record producer, arranger and talent scout. He is considered one of the greatest singers in the history of American popular music and a seminal artist in soul and rhythm and blues. His singing style was powerfully influential among soul artists of 1960s and helped exemplify the Stax sound.



By 1967 the band was traveling to gigs on Redding’s Beechcraft H18. On December 9, 1967, they appeared on the Upbeat television show produced in Cleveland. They played three concerts in two nights at a small club called Leo’s Casino. After a phone call with Zelma and their children, Redding’s next stop was Madison, Wisconsin; the next day they were to play at the Factory nightclub near the University of Wisconsin.

Although the weather was poor, with heavy rain and fog and despite warnings, the plane took off. Four miles from their destination at Truax Field in Madison, the pilot radioed for permission to land. Shortly thereafter, the plane crashed into Lake Monona.

Bar-Kays member Ben Cauley, the accident’s only survivor, was sleeping shortly before the accident. He woke just before impact to see bandmate Phalon Jones look out a window and exclaim, "Oh, no!" Cauley said the last thing he remembered before the crash was unbuckling his seat belt. He then found himself in frigid water, grasping a seat cushion to keep afloat.

A non-swimmer, he was unable to rescue the others. The cause of the crash was never determined. James Brown claimed in his autobiography, The Godfather of Soul, that he had warned Redding not to fly in the plane.

Aretha Franklin stated, "I heard it on the TV. My sister Caroline and I stopped everything and stayed glued to the TV and radio. It was a tragedy. Shocking."

Other victims were pilot Richard Fraser, drummer Matthew Kelly, lead guitarist of the Bar-Kays Jimmy King, tenor saxophonist Phalon Jones, organist Ronnie Caldwell and drummer Carl Cunningham.

Redding’s body was recovered the next day when the lake bed was searched. The family postponed the funeral from December 15 to December 18 so that more could attend.

The service took place at the City Auditorium in Macon. More than 4,500 people came to the funeral, overflowing the 3,000-seat hall, although many did not know who he was. Johnny Jenkins and Isaac Hayes did not come, fearing their reaction would be worse than Zelma Redding’s.

Redding was entombed at his ranch in Round Oak, about 20 miles (32 km) north of Macon. Jerry Wexler delivered the eulogy. Redding died just three days after recording Dock of the Bay. He was survived by Zelma and three children, Otis III, Dexter and Karla. Otis, Dexter and cousin Mark Lockett later founded the Reddings, a band managed by Zelma.

She also maintained or worked at the janitorial service Maids Over Macon, several nightclubs and booking agencies. On November 8, 1997, a memorial plaque was placed on the lakeside deck of the Madison convention center, Monona Terrace.

Marvin Gaye (April 2, 1939 – April 1, 1984), born Marvin Pentz Gay, Jr., was an American singer-songwriter and musician.

Gaye helped to shape the sound of Motown Records in the 1960s with a string of hits, including "How Sweet It Is (To Be Loved By You)" and "I Heard It Through the Grapevine", and duet recordings with Mary Wells and Tammi Terrell, later earning the titles "Prince of Motown" and "Prince of Soul". During the 1970s, he recorded the concept albums What’s Going On and Let’s Get It On and became one of the first artists in Motown to break away from the reins of its production company.



The Reverend Marvin Pentz Gay Sr. (October 1, 1914 – October 10, 1998) was an American minister of the House of God. He was the father of American recording artist Marvin Gaye and gained notoriety after shooting and killing him on April 1, 1984 following an argument at their Los Angeles home.

At around 11:38 am (PST) on April 1, 1984, as Marvin was seated on his bed talking to his mother, Gaye’s father shot Marvin twice. The first shot, which entered the right side of Gaye’s chest, was fatal, having perforated his vital organs. Gaye was taken to the emergency room of the California Hospital Medical Center and was pronounced dead on arrival at 1:01 pm (PST). Gaye died a day before turning 45. The gun with which Marvin Gay, Sr. shot his son, was given to him by Marvin, as a Christmas present, to keep Marvin safe from intruders.

Following his funeral, Marvin was cremated with part of his ashes spread near the Pacific Ocean. Gaye did not leave behind a will or an insurance policy at the time of his death.

During his first police interview, Gay snr, would tell cops that he didn’t mean to shoot him, but that he had been scared that he would be hurt and only shot him in self-defense. When the police asked him if he loved his son, Gay softly told them, "let’s say I didn’t dislike him." When the police later told Gay that his son had died from his shots, he reportedly sobbed and wept uncontrollably before he was taken to prison and was promptly charged with first-degree murder for his son’s death.

Gaye’s father pleaded no contest to a voluntary manslaughter charge and was sentenced to probation. He later died of pneumonia in 1998. Marvin’s fans have held vigils for the singer at the final residence to celebrate the day of his birth.

Samuel "Sam" Cooke (January 22, 1931 – December 11, 1964) was an American recording artist and singer-songwriter, generally considered among the greatest of all time. Influential as both a singer and composer, he is commonly known as the King of Soul for his distinctive vocals and importance within popular music.

His pioneering contributions to soul music led to the rise of Aretha Franklin, Bobby Womack, Al Green, Curtis Mayfield, Stevie Wonder, Marvin Gaye, Billy Preston and popularized the likes of Otis Redding and James Brown. AllMusic biographer Bruce Eder wrote that Cooke was "the inventor of soul music", and possessed "an incredible natural singing voice and a smooth, effortless delivery that has never been surpassed."



Cooke died at the age of 33 on December 11, 1964, at the Hacienda Motel at 9137 South Figueroa Street, in Los Angeles, California. Answering separate reports of a shooting and of a kidnapping at the motel, police found Cooke’s body, clad only in a sports jacket and shoes but no shirt, pants or underwear. He had sustained a gunshot wound to the chest, which was later determined to have pierced his heart.

The motel’s manager, Bertha Franklin, said she had shot Cooke in self-defense after he broke into her office residence and attacked her. Her account was immediately questioned and disputed by friends and acquaintances.

The official police record says that Franklin fatally shot Cooke, who had checked in earlier that evening. Franklin claimed that Cooke had broken into the manager’s office-apartment in a rage, wearing nothing but a shoe and a sports coat, demanding to know the whereabouts of a woman who had accompanied him to the hotel. Franklin said the woman was not in the office and that she told Cooke this, but the enraged Cooke did not believe her and violently grabbed her, demanding again to know the woman’s whereabouts.

According to Franklin, she grappled with Cooke, the two of them fell to the floor, and she then got up and ran to retrieve her gun. She said she then fired at Cooke in self-defense because she feared for her life. Cooke was struck once in the torso and, according to Franklin, he exclaimed, "Lady, you shot me", before mounting a last charge at her. She said she beat him over his head with a broomstick before he finally fell, mortally wounded by the gunshot.

According to Franklin and the motel’s owner, Evelyn Carr (some sources identify the motel owner’s last name as "Card"), they had been on the telephone together at the time of the incident. Thus, Carr claimed to have overheard Cooke’s intrusion and the ensuing conflict and gunshot. Carr called the police to request that officers go to the motel, telling them she believed a shooting had occurred.

Some of Cooke’s family and supporters, however, have rejected Boyer’s version of events, as well as those given by Franklin and Carr. They believe there was a conspiracy to murder Cooke, and the murder took place in some manner entirely different from the three official accounts.

Singer Etta James wrote that her viewing of Cooke’s body, before his funeral, led her to join those who question the accuracy of the official version of events. She said the injuries she observed were well beyond what could be explained by the official account of Franklin’s alone having fought with Cooke. James described Cooke as having been so badly beaten that his head was nearly separated from his shoulders, his hands were broken and crushed, and his nose mangled.

No concrete evidence supporting a criminal conspiracy has been presented to date.

A coroner’s inquest was convened to investigate the incident.

The woman who had accompanied Cooke to the motel was identified as Elisa Boyer, who had also called the police that night shortly before Carr had. Boyer had called the police from a telephone booth near the motel, telling them she had just escaped being kidnapped.

John Henry Rostill (16 June 1942 – 26 November 1973) was an English bassist and composer, recruited by The Shadows to replace Brian Locking.

Stylistically, Rostill combined the solidity of Brian Locking and the adventurousness of Jet Harris. Many of his bass lines were heavily syncopated and he developed a range of new sounds on the Burns bass during his time with the group, a longer period than Harris and Locking put together. To many players, Rostill was ahead of his time and included double-stopping in his technique. Unusually, for that time, Rostill sometimes played bass finger-style as well as with a plectrum, depending on the sound he wanted.



John Rostill died in Radlett, England, on 26 November 1973. He was electrocuted by his guitar owing to faulty or incorrectly earthed electrical equipment. His body was found by Bruce Welch.

He was survived by his wife Margaret and his son Paul (a year old when his father died).

Sid Vicious, born John Simon Ritchie, later named John Beverley (10 May 1957 – 2 February 1979), was an English bass guitarist and vocalist, most famous as a member of the influential punk group the Sex Pistols.


Nancy Laura Spungen (February 27, 1958 – October 12, 1978) was the girlfriend of Sex Pistols bassist Sid Vicious and a figure of the 1970s punk rock scene. Spungen’s life, and her death, have been the subject of controversy among music historians and fans of the Sex Pistols.

Raised in Philadelphia, Spungen was an emotionally disturbed child who was diagnosed with schizophrenia at the age of 15. After being expelled from college, she went to London at the height of the punk rock craze and became involved with Sid Vicious. Their relationship was punctuated by bouts of domestic violence and drug abuse. The press soon labelled Spungen "Nauseating Nancy" for her shocking behavior. After the Sex Pistols disbanded, the couple moved to New York City and checked into the Hotel Chelsea. They spent their days consuming drugs and were regularly visited by drug dealers.

In October 1978, Spungen was found dead in the bathroom of the couple’s room, of a single stab wound to the abdomen. Sid Vicious was charged with her murder but died of a heroin overdose in February 1979, before the case went to trial. Various authors and filmmakers have speculated about Vicious’ role in Spungen’s death and the possibility that Spungen was killed by a drug dealer who frequented their room.

On 22 October, ten days after Spungen’s death, Vicious attempted suicide by slitting his wrist with a smashed light bulb and was subsequently hospitalized at Bellevue Hospital where he also tried killing himself by jumping from a window as well as shouting "I want to be with my Nancy" or other similar words, but got pulled back by hospital staff. In an interview he gave in November 1978, he said that Nancy’s death was "meant to happen" and that "Nancy always said she’d die before she was 21."

Near the end of the interview, he was asked if he was having fun. In reply, he asked the interviewer if he was kidding, adding that he would like to be "under the ground." It was also at Bellevue that he met his lawyer James Merberg, who did everything he could to keep Vicious out of jail.

Second arrest: assault

He was charged with assault after attacking Todd Smith, singer Patti Smith’s brother, at a Skafish concert at Hurrah; a New York dance club. Peter Kodick and Steve Dior were there to grab him, and the chaos that followed consisted of people chasing the trio down the street and potentially causing a lot more trouble at the bar.

Vicious was arrested on December 9, 1978 and sent to Rikers Island metro jail for fifty-five days to undergo a painful and enforced detoxification. It was revealed in the pilot episode of Final 24 that Sid was raped, abused, attacked and subjected to various other humiliating assaults, but no one has reported witnessing these events. He was released on bail on February 1, 1979.

Bail was originally set at ,000., but lowered after court hearings and negotiations from his lawyer. Malcolm McLaren, the Sex Pistols’ manager, worked to raise money and the bond was eventually covered by Virgin Records. John Lydon has stated that Mick Jagger stepped in and paid for the lawyers for Vicious, and has praised Jagger for never seeking any publicity for this.

1979: Sid Vicious dies from drugs overdose

Sex Pistols’ bass player Sid Vicious has died of a heroin overdose in New York.

His mother, Anne Beverley, found him dead in bed with his sleeping girlfriend in an apartment in Greenwich Village this morning.

There had been a party in the flat to celebrate Mr Vicious’ release on ,000 bail yesterday pending his trial for the murder of his former girlfriend, Nancy Spungen, last October.

The precise details of his death are unknown but party guests say Sid Vicious – real name John Simon Ritchie – took some heroin at midnight.

His mother, once a registered addict, said: "He knew the smack was pure and strong and took a lot less than usual."

Shortly after taking the drug Mr Vicious, 21, collapsed, went into seizure and displayed the symptoms of overdose.

He revived 40 minutes later and went to bed with his girlfriend, Michelle Robinson, at about 0300 local time.

The first police officer on the scene later in the morning was Robert Zink who discovered "a syringe, a spoon and what is probably residue near the body."

The troubled punk musician – renowned for his violent behaviour – had been on a detoxification, methadone programme in prison, but he had developed a £40 a day habit since meeting Miss Spungen last year.

It was the second time Virgin Records – the Sex Pistols’ label – had to bail out Sid Vicious.

He was re-arrested after his initial bail for assaulting Patti Smith’s brother, Todd, in a New York disco and had just served another 55 days in prison.

A spokesman for Virgin boss Richard Branson said: "In retrospect he was obviously far safer in jail where the temptations that ultimately killed him were not present."

Sex Pistols’ manager Malcolm McClaren – who was planning a comeback for the band – also blames the person who gave him the heroin at the party.

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Read My Girlfriend’s Text Messages

Read My Girlfriend’s Text Messages

Do you want to know what is the best way to “read my girlfriend’s text messages”? There are numerous ways to find out the truth about what your girlfriend is texting her friends about you, and you may be surprised at how easy it can be to spy on her secrets this way. So if you are worried about what your girlfriend may not be telling you, or if you suspect that she may be cheating on you, then you may want to “read my girlfriend’s text messages” and find out the truth about her secret conversations.

The Key To “Read My Girlfriend’s Text Messages”

If you want to “read my girlfriend’s text messages”, the natural thing to do would be just to pick up her phone when she’s either in the shower or sleeping and read it then. While this may work if your girlfriend isn’t too careful with the contents of her phone, most of the time you won’t find anything. If she really has something to hide, do you really think that she’ll leave it sitting there in her phone? She’ll most likely delete it before you even have the chance to read it!

Before you give up on your desire to “read my girlfriend’s text messages” altogether though, you should know that there are ways to read her texts even if she deletes them. Thanks to phone monitoring software, you can literally see everything that happens on her phone even if she deletes that information. The program is very easy to install on your girlfriend’s phone, and once it’s on there, you can spy on her texts, instant messaging conversations, pictures, videos and even track the GPS location of her phone. You don’t even have to touch her phone ever again once it’s installed, you can access all of this online securely without her even knowing about it.

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Do bear in mind that some programs are more reliable and discreet than others, so you should be prepared to spend a little extra to get the best program. The last thing you will want is to “read my girlfriend’s text messages” but get found out by her. I would recommend getting a program called Mobile Spy to monitor her phone as it is the best on the market in terms of discretion and reliability. Try it out today!

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How Can I Get My Ex Girlfriend Back After Telling Me She Needs Some Space

How can I get my ex girlfriend back when she needs space? Probably the biggest question guys ask themselves, especially with women-led breakups, because most involve something to do with needing more space. If she is telling you she needs more space in the relationship, she is indirectly telling you she is unhappy with the relationship. This is a common answer given during a breakup, and is usually used to avoid speaking about what is really going on.

When a girl, unfortunately, says she wants space and decides to end the relationship, she is often saying she does not want to be with you, and really does not want to expend the effort to help you understand what’s going on in her mind.

Something is usually wrong in the relationship when a woman asks for space. Rather than help you figure out the issues and get the relationship back on track, they would rather walk. If you ever find yourself asking “how can I get my ex girlfriend back when she needs space?” this is a positive indication that you want to make things better in the relationship and that you still have hope.

It is a pretty clear cut indication that the communication between you has broken down if she needs space. You need to get into her mind and find out what is really bothering her, if you sincerely want to get the relationship working again. Often, this becomes difficult because for whatever reason, she has shut you out, but if you persist you will figure it out. With so many guys asking “how can I get my ex girlfriend back when she needs space?”, it appears to be a common phenomenon and it does have a solution.

If you are trying to rekindle your relationship with your ex girlfriend who is telling you she needs space, just find a way to communicate with her. She will often just be using the needing space story to let you know something is wrong with your relationship with her, and if she will not talk about it, it has to be addressed eventually. Just give her gentle hints you want to still be with her.

Just simply offer to remain a friend and offer companionship, and see how she responds to that. Do not force yourself on her. When she gets comfortable with this friendship, just start slightly inquiring about what went wrong in the relationship; subtle hints are all you need in your conversation with her to find out.

She will open up on her own time, when she is good and ready. Never rush or force things, just use a slow and easy approach and let her find the best way to say what happened. Once the issues are exposed, this gives you the opportunity to resolve them and you get your ex girlfriend back.
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ok so im doing something a little different tonight. my girlfriend write this little tid bit about music which ive recently been trying to learn more about. i thought i would post it for the rest of you to read and enjoy =).

I can’t play the piano, or create music on it or for it. So instead I’m creating my music here. This blank page is my piano and my words are my music. The intensity I want you to feel when you read certain parts of my song comes from how fast I type these words just like how fast or slow the piano plays. You wont know it though, you wont know when I was typing fast or slow, but you will feel the intensity I felt when you read it, if I’m conveying my thoughts the right way. Whatever I hear, I’m creating something right on this page, only in words. Writing is like a song, there’s a lead up a climax and an ending. Writing to music makes whatever your writing like the mood of the song your listening to. At slow parts you slow down you think, the intensity builds back up in the song and your brain has had its time to think and rest and all of the sudden your thoughts are front and center again. It’s the same as when your listening to music you move to the song and at the slow part you take time to take it in. When the intensity rises again you start to move, since you have already collected your thoughts about what that song has been meaning to you. It’s the same with writing as it is the same with life. There are moments when everything is on such high gear, everything is intense your moving and moving emotionally, physically, mentally. The mood is on edge there’s no time to even think about what your doing. Then comes the slow down, that time where it’s as if your car is running at 60 mph and hit’s a big puddle. Suddenly all that intensity in your life has come to a halt, now is the time to take in all you have learned, now is the time to make sense of all your life has become and is becoming. At this point your not really moving, mentally, physically, or emotionally. Your floating, taking it all in, at this point there’s not much you feel like you can do or ever will be able to do. But just like a great song, that slow down once again has that build up. All that time you had to reflect on who you are, who you were and what you are becoming is going to come in handy, because once again your going to move, that slow part comes in good use because now at this point in the song you know what’s going to happen you know in a great song the greatest part is towards the end so that you’ll remember it. That’s what you want for you life, after that slow down you want to have the intensity of the last stretch so good so that at the end you’ll want to remember it, and other people will remember it all. Not all people appreciate a great song, some like ones that are carbon copied and made in a day for the money. In a song like that you can’t truly connect to the build up, the slow down, the peak and the break down. A song like that is made for you to hear, but not to listen, and not to feel, what it’s really made for is money. which increases power. Again this is how people live their lives, carbon copied. The substance isn’t there, all these people care about is what is in front of them, they don’t take the time to let their lives build up and they sure don’t take the time to slow down. And when they don’t slow down they cant really reflect on who they are in they’re soul. In return their lives become about the next check, and any way to become more powerful over the rest. In a life like this as in a song like this, what is there to remember in the last stretch, will it be remembered in the end at all. Life should be lived like a great song is written, and preformed. Maybe that’s why great music comes from people who have great minds, because they know how to live their life. Since the dawn of any structured form of civilization man has been creating music. It lives in us, and people who know how to truly live know how to create music in it’s purest form, because it lives in us. If you know how to live purely then so when you make music it reflects that. It almost feels as if music is a living creature itself, we live through it and it lives through us. If you can harness your own life, you can harness the music. The truth comes from august rush, when he said “ the music is all around us, all you have to do is listen.” The reason that’s true is because we take music from our own lives. I think music is something that is so diversified and so easily relatable and something that you can so greatly feel with every fiber you have, because that’s what it is and that’s where it comes from. People say music is their life, well because it is. It’s something that comes from somewhere inside of someone out of nowhere. It can be related to all art forms and most importantly the journey of life itself. Every art form and self expression is equally important to each other because they all connect together, they all live inside of each person and personify life and the soul, the shitty ones most of the time coming from lost people. The great ones coming from lost people who are trying to find their way. Because were all lost in a way and always will be. The journey is never ending and self expression in any form is there to light the path even, if it’s a little bit dim. Everyone’s life is song good, or bad. They just have to learn how to play it.


Why is My Ex Girlfriend Ignoring Me?

One minute she’s your loving girlfriend… and the next? She won’t even accept your calls. This was a girl that loved you, cared for you, laughed with you and spent all her time on your relationship. But now? Nothing.

After the break up, what makes your girlfriend go from warm and loving to cold and clinical so quickly? How can she so easily forget what you had together?

More importantly: can you break that behavior, or are you doomed to a life without her?

When your ex girlfriend is ignoring you, it’s hard to get her back. Winning your girlfriend’s attention and respect is an important part of getting back together again, and you can’t reverse your breakup without accomplishing this crucial step.

Getting Past The Awkward First Stages Of Your Break Up

One of the bigger problems: immediately after ending your relationship, your ex wants little to do with you. Right now she feels strange and awkward around you, mostly because she knows you still have romantic feelings for her. In an attempt to break up with you, your ex is trying to ignore romance and move on in a different direction… but you keep trying to bring up old times, talk about the relationship, and get your girlfriend to change her mind about dumping you.

In reality however, your ex girlfriend’s feelings for you are still there. Just because she’s choosing to ignore them doesn’t mean your ex doesn’t still love you. Emotional bonds are strong, and they don’t just fall away the second she makes the decision to end things. This is good news if you’re trying to win your girlfriend back, because there are ways of playing upon those feelings that will make her remember your relationship and want to be with you again.

Understanding Your Ex Girlfriend’s Mindset – And Rolling With It Instead of Against It

Another common issue guys run into after being dumped: thinking they can change their ex girlfriend’s mind. For any girl looking to end things, continued conflict is a very frustrating part of the breakup. This is why it’s important not to fight your girlfriend on her decision to break up with you, but rather roll with the punches (for now) and then make your comeback later on.

You need to realize that right now, nothing is going to fix your break up. By letting it happen and allowing your ex the freedom to go, it might seem like you’re letting your girlfriend slip away. In reality however, what you’re really doing is giving your girlfriend exactly what she wants: a taste of life without you in it. And in most cases? By completely removing yourself from her world, your ex might find that things taste a lot lonelier than she anticipated.

Want the real kicker? Your girlfriend wants you to chase her. Ego-wise, she wants to see that you’re hurt and upset about her breaking up with you. She needs the justification of knowing that breaking things off made you want her more than ever before, as this verifies that she made the right decision and gives her the satisfaction of seeing you finally pay her some positive attention.

So if she wants you to chase after her, should you? Absolutely NOT. Because as much as it’s fun for her to see you throwing yourself at her feet, this is where your ex girlfriend will turn her nose up at you. This is where she gets to reject your pleas, refuse your advances, and finally seize control over a relationship she feels has gone downhill for her. The more you chase her, the faster she’ll run… and the more respect your ex will lose for you as she watches you break down.

Why Does Your Ex Girlfriend Ignore You?

If your breakup already happened and your ex is ignoring you, it’s probably because you’ve shown too much of your hand. You committed right away to getting her back, probably at all costs, and this is when your ex realized she was holding all the cards.

Had you ignored your ex girlfriend and walked away from the break up cleanly? She’d be a LOT more interested in what you’re doing right now. Your ex would be wonder how you could let her go so easily and would start questioning just how much you really needed her. This is where she begins wondering if she needs you more, and starts thinking that maybe breaking up with you was a mistake on her part.

What Can You Do Right Now To Get Your Ex Back?

Well for one, you can get your ex to miss you using these techniques: http://www.getbackwithanex.com/get-back-with-an-ex-step-3.php

Until she somehow starts thinking about you, she’ll never need you back in her life again. There are methods and techniques you can use to reinsert yourself back in your ex’s head, without her even knowing what you’ve done. Learning these methods can really make the difference between getting back together or breaking up for good.

Nothing happens automatically. When it comes to a breakup, you must be proactive. You can’t sit idly by and hope that your girlfriend will come to her senses, and you can’t just wait for the phone to ring. Do that, and you run the risk of your ex finding someone else.

There are 6 Individual Steps necessary to Get Her Back so find out what they are! And for more information on winning her over, check out Get Back With an Ex Girlfriend.

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Playboy Business: Kendra Wilkinson Reality In Sydney at Ivy

She’s known for a few things, mainly Playboy, The Playboy Mansion, and all that, but now she’s got a Reality TV show, and us Australians are going to find out all about it.

The 26-year-old model – actor – entrepreneur has been spotted sight seeing in Sydney, while getting ready to promote her self titled reality TV show, Kendra.

The blonde media heat seeker, always very well-known for being one of Hugh Hefner’s lucky three girlfriends had a whale of a time enjoying a boat cruise around Sydney Harbour with her mum, while taking photos. Yes, her photo was also taken.

Kendra arrived in Down Under on 13th October and snatched quite a few cheers and wolf whistle’s from the Sydney Airport staff. The walk past is understood to have lifted the striking workers spirits. Naughty, naughty.

The glamour model did tonight (or at least the first part of it) at the exclusive Sydney night spot, The Ivy.

Like many a celeb, she’s quite the fan of Twitter, yesterday tweeting: ‘Wow I’m having the best time in Sydney!! Australia is amazing! Can’t wait to show you guys my pics from my trip!’

Kendra’s reality TV show focuses mainly on her life after leaving the famous Playboy Mansion and getting engaged to then Philadelphia Eagles receiver, Hank Baskett. Kendra is understood to enjoy ball sports.

The star’s virgin appearance on TV was via the TV series ‘The Girls Next Door’, which followed the lives of Playboy Hefner’s, then-girlfriends: Kendra, Holly Madison, and Bridget Marquardt.

Before you could say Playboy Bunny, Kendra moved out of the Playboy Mansion in 2009 after meeting future husband Hank, and began filming her Kendra.

American audiences were into the show and Kendra is praying that Australian audiences will feel the same way too. Well, they are bound to feel something, so hopefully its good.

The former Dancing With The Stars contestant married Hank in June 2009, and their boy Hank IV was born in December of that year. In case you were wondering, the star’s family have not joined her on her latest press trip.

Kendra looked to be enjoying herself at The Ivy tonight, and it sure looks like she’s into the Australian mantra of "Work hard, play harder."

The looker has told Australian press: "The mansion will always be a part of my life and I’m very appreciative of that. Especially Hef. He is like family. So when the time comes I will open up to my son about my days there and the stuff I went through," she said.

"I knew what I wanted. It was always to have a family".

"No one really expected that of me. I went away that no one thought I would go. Everyone thought I was the crazy party girl but I did what everyone thought I wouldn’t do and made a huge turn-around in my life. I always wanted to be a mother and a wife.

"I lived at the mansion from the age of 18 to 21 and once I had that experience and that whole party thing out of my system I was really ready to settle down."

Australian news hounds are expected to continue to track her every movement, and Kendra plays along in the game, making sure everyone knows about her new upcoming Reality TV show.

Kendra: 9.30pm from October 18, only on E!


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Getting Back an Ex Girlfriend

When your girlfriend breaks up with you, it’s natural to feel rejected. If you’ve decided not to walk away from the relationship without a fight, the good news is that getting back an ex girlfriend is easier than you might think. The bad news? That you shouldn’t be fighting for your relationship at all… not if you want to one day date your ex again.

Know what conflict does? It begets more conflict. Which is why many times, after a guy gets dumped by his girlfriend, he digs the hole even deeper than it needs to be. If you’ve decided that you want your girlfriend back, you need to understand that “fighting to keep the relationship” is a silly, romantic notion. Maybe it works in the movies, but in real life? There’s only one real way to win her respect back, and it’s sure not going to be accomplished by fighting her on the break up.

Imagine you’re in your ex girlfriend’s shoes for a second. You just broke up with your boyfriend (you). This was a tough decision, and you thought long and hard about it. You dreaded the face-to-face confrontation, but you finally worked up the courage to do it. And now? You’ve told him it’s over… but hang on a second… he doesn’t accept it. In fact, he’s fighting you tooth and nail, telling you that you’re wrong, and that your decision to end things isn’t going to fly with him.

Getting your girlfriend back requires not making her angry or losing her respect. By accepting the break up, you’re essentially agreeing with her. Not only does this create a non-confrontational environment, but it also puts you in a position where you have some power and control back over what’s going on. On some levels, you’re rejecting her. This will be confusing to a girl who’s hellbent on breaking up with you. In fact, it’ll make her wonder if you felt unhappy in the relationship yourself, and for how long.

No matter what happens, when your ex breaks up with you – you’ll need to find out the reason why. To win back an ex girlfriend you must identify the behaviors that she’s unhappy with and see if you can correct them. Don’t place the blame fully on your own shoulders, but do make an effort to look honestly at the relationship. If you see areas where she’s right, let her know. Sometimes a girl just wants her thoughts and fears justified, and what better justification than coming from her boyfriend? While this might not reverse the break up right away, it’s the equivalent of taking a pretty big step back in the direction of making her want and need you back.

Creating an atmosphere where your girlfriend misses you is a crucial part of fixing your breakup. To get her back, she first must need you back. For this reason, you can’t put on a pitiful, depressed, or hopelessly needy front. No guy ever got his girlfriend back through pity… and if he did? It probably lasted all of 24 hours. Women want a man who’s tough, strong, and independent… not one who’s unsure, insecure, and lost without her. If you want to get back an ex girlfriend, you need to display the behaviors and personality traits that are attractive to begin with.

Leaving your ex alone for a while is also critical, especially just after the breakup occurs. Hounding your girlfriend with excessive phone calls or text messages is only going to push her away. In fact, you shouldn’t be contacting your ex at all. Not even an email, not even a “hello what’s up?” on her Facebook wall or Myspace page, or whatever else you might be thinking of doing. Do you miss your girlfriend? Do you want to call her up? Call your friends instead. Go out and do things that will get you mind off her as quickly as possible. The less she hears from you, the more your girlfriend will want you back. This is a simple but crazy rule of thumb that all break ups follow, no matter what your current circumstances might be.

There are 8 Individual Steps necessary when learning How to Get Back an Ex Girlfriend, so find out what they are! And to read the complete, detailed guide to fixing your breakup, be sure to check out Get Back Your Ex Girlfriend!

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We took a small family trip out earlier this year on a Sunday. My dad, my mum, my girlfriend and I. We got on the wrong train and ended up at Termini Imerese which is about 50km east of Palermo, Sicily. When we arrived we found that in the centre of town there was a vintage car show! This was my first ever roll shooting a half frame camera, the Olympus Pen Ees-2. Lovely little camera from the ’60s… just like some of these cars!
It’s quite strange shooting a half frame camera at first because when you hold the camere in a normal position the picture you see through the viewfinder is a portrait. I guess it makes one think a bit!

[Olympus Pen Ees-2 + Kodak Gold 200]

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How to Get a Girlfriend – Get a Girlfriend in Record Time With These 3 Secrets

You may be really glad to hear this but it isn’t hard at all to get a girlfriend. When I’ve gone about helping guys in this area I usually take them through a 3 step process which involves altering their mindset of how to get a girlfriend. Not surprisingly after having taken many of them through the steps and changing how they think, success came to them and they got a girlfriend in days. And I have no doubt in my mind that if you apply these tips you can find success also.

So now I am going to run through the 3 Steps.

I’d say nearly 100% of the guys I have helped seem to have accepted that they will die alone and that they will never find a girlfriend. As a result they move into the darker realms where desperation and neediness take over their personality. Perhaps you may have experienced this? You need to know that this neediness from within becomes very clear to all females, they can sense it a mile off. More importantly they are never attracted to someone who is needy. In the past I’ve shown guys how to eliminate all neediness, and they found immediate success afterwards.

Approximately 99.9% of guys who struggle to attract girls have some kind of secret excuse that they think is stopping them from attracting women. For example they say things like “I’m not good looking enough” or “I’m not tall enough” or “I’m overweight.” You need to know that none of that will ever stop you achieving what you want. Attracting girls is like an art, if you study guys who are successful with girls, you will get great insights into what makes them successful and I know loads of ‘below-average guys’ who have beaten the odds to get a beautiful girlfriend. So ditch your secret excuse. NOW!

It’s not all about chat up lines. Attracting a girl goes much deeper than a set of chat up lines. Put it this way, a girl will not suddenly like you after you tell her your best chat up lines, she will only like you if you can trigger attraction within. Have you ever noticed how the ‘Jerk’ most of the time ends up with the beautiful girl? Over time I’ve studied them and what trait it is that attracts a girl to them. I explain this in more info over at my personal website.

These 3 tips will definitely point you in the right direction if you want to get a girlfriend right now. Click the links below if you want to discover more of my best tips get a girlfriend in 90 days.

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I thought today would be a great day to post a shot from a new veteran’s memorial to those who have made great sacrifice in service to our country. The memorial opened in November and is in Plano, Texas. Please see the "Taken in…" link under additional info to see the exact location. Below you will find two other shots taken there last week. I thought the two tableau’s were fitting and appropriate. The memorial isn’t large but for a small suburb I think impressive.

My thanks to all who serve and sacrifice no matter how you do it. This is one of the miracles of us humans 🙂

And thanks to all of you for your comments, faves and fun!

Part 2: https://youtu.be/vn2lzkDOsHE

No copyright infringement intended. I do not own anything but this channel. All rights go to Warner Bros. Entertainment and CBS. Made for entertainment and non-profit.


Stop Fighting With Your Girlfriend – These Steps Show The Way!

If you’ve been a relationship for more than a week or so, you’ve learned that it’s normal to have disagreements from time to time. If those disagreements are occupying the bulk of your time together, though, that’s a problem that you need to deal with together. The ideas and opinions that make you unique aren’t always going to be identical with hers. Don’t try to stop disagreements, but if you’ve noticed a trend toward every disagreement resulting in a fight, you need to take action. Remember that this is a relationship built on mutual love, and if you can overcome this problem together, you’ll strengthen that relationship. These are the steps to follow if you’d like to stop the constant fighting with your girlfriend:

Stop Fighting with Your Girlfriend Step 1: Talk calmly. What’s the point of shouting at each other? Do either of you have a hearing problem? When you’re talking about your differences, the key word is “talking.” Keep in mind also that yelling and shouting can lead to such violent behavior as throwing and breaking things.

Stop Fighting with Your Girlfriend Step 2: You need to understand what you’re really fighting about. If you;re experiencing a string of fights, one after another, it might not be many fights, but one long fight stretched out. A fight is resolved when you find the underlying issues and deal with them.

Stop Fighting with Your Girlfriend Step 3: Take a short break from each other. When you find out about a problem, instead of going at it hammer and tongs, take a break so that you each can cool off and give the matter some serious thought. So when you feel a fight’s about to start, take a break and spend a few hours apart before sitting down to talk it over. Instead of fighting, take a break to cool off and think about it. Frankly, is this disagreement worth fighting over? Could it be that you’re each using the fight as a way of hurting each others’ feelings?

Stop Fighting with Your Girlfriend Step 4: Remember, this is the woman you love. When she expresses her thoughts and opinions, listen carefully. Remember that you’re working together to solve a problem, not beat each other up. Respect the things that make you different and be patient with each other’s shortcomings. Don’t judge each other, but be honest at all times. Respecting each other, then, is a critical component of your campaign to end the fighting.

Stop Fighting with Your Girlfriend Step 5: You don’t need to win! The two of you simply may continue to disagree. You can move on without coming to agreement – just acknowledge it together. The important thing is this – if you don’t agree with some of your girlfriend’s opinions and beliefs, you must respect them.

Stop Fighting with Your Girlfriend Step 6: You must each acknowledge your own mistakes, and freely forgive each other for them. When you admit your own mistakes, you’re expecting that she’s going to forgive you for them – so you have to forgive her for her mistakes as well. Being able to forgive will strengthen your relationship. One of the keys to stopping the trend of fighting with your girlfriend, then, is to make certain to forgive each other whenever you do fight. Telling her that you’re sorry won’t be hard if you remember why you love her.

Stop Fighting with Your Girlfriend Step 7: If it’s still not working, then it’s time to seek outside help. If the time comes that you realize you can’t solve the problem on your own, go ahead and look for help from a qualified third party. If the two of you working together can’t come to a resolution, it may be that you need the benefit of another perspective. There are many qualified people who can help you – psychologists, counselors and clergy, to name a few. You problem will probably be solved with their help.

The routine bickering and fighting with your girlfriend will pretty much end once you’ve followed these 7 steps. You’ll still have disagreements now and then. That’s normal. How the two of you handle your disagreements is far more important.

If you found these tips helpful and you’d like to learn more ways to bring the peace and fun back to your relationship, check out the article on how to stop arguing with girlfriend on the website get back my girlfriend.

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Ex Girlfriend Advice That Will Make Her Come Back to You

Have you just gone through a break up that leaves you without an ex girlfriend? Advice from your friends or family on how to get her back is almost non existant, because most people will tell you that you should just move on. Don’t worry, because I’m going to tell you about some useful tricks that will actually make your girlfriend want you back.

Don’t focus too much of your attention on trying to figure out the perfect magic words to say to your ex girlfriend, because the truth is that if you get your ex girlfriend back, your words will have very little to do with it. Did any one thing you said in particular make your girlfriend leave you? It stands to reason, then, that no one thing you can possibly say will bring her back, right?

Your girlfriend left you because as your relationship aged, she became less and less attracted to you. This is very common, and the reasons for this are outside the scope of this article, but let it be known that you CAN make her attracted to you again. Remember how you got her to fall for you in the beginning? You can do it again. This time, it will be a little bit different.

What I’m about to tell you may sound harder than it really is. To make your girlfriend become attracted to you again, you’re going to have to learn to understand her feminine psychology. It’s really more simple than it sounds, because psychology isn’t really all that complicated. It’s just overcomplicated by professors who want to make you think they’re smarter than you.

Basically, it works like this: attraction is entirely based on what’s going on in the brain. Therefore, if you can learn to control the psychological mechanisms which trigger attraction, then you can turn your girlfriend’s attraction for you up or down like a volume knob! I’m deadly serious.

Before you judge me as some sort of demonic, manipulative man, allow me to explain myself. I find that those who will do whatever it takes to get their ex girlfriend back are also usually the ones that care a lot about their ex girlfriends and will treat them well once they get them back. This is probably the case with you — you most likely just don’t want her to end up in some other guy’s arms (or bed).

And the truth is, using psychology to make your girlfriend attracted to you all over again is often the only reliable way to make sure that you end up with her again. When the two of you are happy in each others arms again, do you think she’ll care about what sneaky techniques you used to make her come back? No, she won’t. That’s my advice for how to handle this situation with your ex girlfriend; take it as you will.

Are you ready to get your ex girlfriend back? Here is another important technique that you should learn to get her back: How to Make Your Ex Girlfriend Jealous. If you just want to get over your ex girlfriend, then this should help: How to Get Over An Ex Girlfriend

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I ventured into town yesterday as it was reasonably bright although a bit chilly and I’m finding winter in the UK to be far less fun for shooting portraits this year so wanted to try to capitalise on the reasonable weather.

In the end I found myself clacking direction until I bumped into a fellow street photographer whom I know and we got chatting. This gave me the vibe I needed to get back on it and we talked about the next set being in mini sets, I had a crazy idea to make the first 5 portraits in the same location o headed back to where I shot stranger 1 (Joe) and took two more sets of shots.

Just before this shot I took one of a girl with amazing hair but the feeling wash;t in the shot so i will upload it later but it will not be in the project. I found at 1.2 a few of my shots weren’t focused spot on but I was pleased with this one having Azusa sharp with her contact with the camera.

This couple walk past me and I chased them and asked them to come with me for the photograph, which involved heading down a small alley and a set of steps to this location. They just went with it and didn’t question my crazy idea. Masashi and his girlfriend are students in Nottingham and come from Japan.
Afterwards I gave them my card and I had an email from Masashi thanking me for taking the pictures and explaining how much he enjoyed it. I then had another meal later on after he had seen my images online telling that was very complimentary and this made me smile – a good start to the portraits of 2014!

Thanks Masashi and Azusa for your participation and time.

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What You Can Do to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back When She’s Dating Another Man

A break up with your ex girlfriend can have a muffling effect on your confidence and your modality. The only thing that is worse than a break up is when your ex girlfriend begins to date somebody new. That can be a truly dispiriting experience, because if you are like most guys, you probably committed a good deal of time and energy into your relationship. You can relax, because I am going to give you some advice on how to get your girlfriend back, even when she’s seeing another guy.

While there are a throng of causes that cause a relationship to die, it all comes down to one thing — your girlfriend ultimately lost attraction for you. It can be hard to accept, but let’s face it. Women are emotional creatures, and cannot really control their powerful emotions. If a woman is drawn to and in love with a guy, she is not able to dump him. This is why you see beautiful women staying in relationships with jerks against their own better judgment.

Don’t hear this news and get disheartened, though; you can get your girlfriend back, it will just take a little understanding of female psychology and how to take advantage of it. Some guys may hear this and think that what I’m about to say is a bit “evil” or “dark” in nature; but let me give you an alternate perspective on the whole thing.

What is the harm in you getting your girlfriend back (even if you have to use a few manipulative tactics) if the only reason you want her back is to make her happy? There are a lot of bad men out there, and so if your intentions are to treat your girlfriend with love and kindness, then you should not feel bad about getting her back in any way possible. In this case, the ends justify the means.

Unfortunately, simply caring about your girlfriend is not enough to make your girlfriend come back to you. For your girlfriend to want to dump her new guy and come back to you, it will mean you have to attract her all over again.

I hope that these words are comforting to you, because you genuinely can get your girlfriend back by attracting her once again. This new guy may have the advantage of novelty, but you have the advantage of truly knowing and caring for your ex girlfriend in a way that other men will find hard to surpass. Mix that with a little bit of attraction, and bingo, you’re in.

If you want your girlfriend to be with you instead of with this new guy, you need to take a little bit of time to really understand how your girlfriend thinks and what she is attracted to. If you do that, then it won’t even matter that your ex girlfriend is dating someone else. You’ll know all of the secrets of attracting her, and the other guy won’t.

I can teach you exactly how to win your ex girlfriend back. Check out my website: Ex Girlfriend Advice Why Did My Girlfriend Break Up With Me

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…Obi explained the situation about BA-253’s girlfriend to the squad.
"That’s awful!" said the Toy Soldier, "We need to do something!"
"Precisely." said Obi, "That’s why I suggest we leave now and head over to save her. The Disco dude can help by keeping these stormtroopers distracted."…

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Get Your Girlfriend Back – 4 Reasons Why She Won’t Take You Back

Breaking up with your girlfriend is NOT expected to be an easy thing for any man to have to endure. There is pain and hurt there. Any man that says that there is not, either didn’t really want to be with her, or he is just trying to save face. When you go through a relationship turmoil like a breakup with your girlfriend, you want to get her back more than anything else. You assume that getting her back will make everything a little bit better, a little more enjoyable.

And you are probably RIGHT.

That doesn’t mean that you will be able to get your girlfriend back as quickly as you can snap your fingers. And there really are no guarantees that she will take you back. However, there are little “tricks” that you can use to make her want to come back to you. There are little things that you can do to make her think about you and want to be in YOUR arms again.

There are also reasons WHY she won’t take you back and you DO want to pay attention to these, cause if you don’t, then you are sure to find yourself LOST without your girlfriend in YOUR life.

Here are 4 VERY common reasons why she might not take you back.

1. You hurt her too much and for too long.

Some guys just don’t get it and they keep on treating their girlfriend the WRONG way and then they expect to be able to work a little magic and make her take them back. Too many times and she will not come back to you. Of course, if you are not the kind of guy that constantly put your girlfriend through a lot, then you CAN get her back.

2. You immediately turn into a basket case and she sees this.

If breaking up with your girlfriend makes you become the kind of guy that drops to his knees and BEGS his girlfriend to come back, you might as well pick yourself back up and walk away without looking back. You want her to want to be with you, and a woman is not exactly turned on by a man that begs and grovels in front of her.

3. You chase after her and try to be in contact with her ALL of the time.

This is very common and it IS a BIG mistake. If you chase after your ex-girlfriend and try to phone her, text her, and do anything you can to stay in contact with her, then she is going to want to RUN from you and I wouldn’t blame her at all. Becoming annoying and nuisance to your ex-girlfriend is about the easiest way to guarantee that she WON’T want you back.

4. You fail to create a REAL plan of ACTION to get your girlfriend back.

If you want to really succeed at getting back with your girlfriend, then you have to be a man of action. Of course, it has to be the RIGHT actions and you have to do POSITIVE things to get your girlfriend back. With the right plan of action, you can easily FLIP the situation and be back with your girlfriend in no time at all!

Want to find an EASY PLAN to get your girlfriend back? Go to: Make HER Want YOU Back and find out what to do to make her want you back… Copyright © 2009 Chris Tyler All Rights Reserved.

The Personality Splits
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Sometimes, just sometimes mind, I feel like there are many different versions of me in my head which are all trying to have their say. Luckily I can usually bitch slap them down and gain control in a second or two but this poor dear has no such luck. She’s stuck with her multiple belligerent personalities nearly all day everyday and it is driving her close to madness. She is graced with an astounding beauty though so many men think that she is unbelievably amazing and that she should be their girlfriend. Unfortunately most men just can’t handle those levels of craziness but if any of them had looked upon the Maskell-Williams sexy/crazy scale then they would have found out that it just wasn’t going to work out…



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